I don't know about any of you, but I seem to struggle at finishing stuff. Things sound like good ideas, but life is so busy with good ideas that I often find it difficult to complete one good thing for something that may be perceived as better or more pressing.
A few weeks ago, one of my friends asked me to read a book. I really did want to read it...so when he gave it to me, I committed to do it. I did it for two reasons...I wanted to and I knew he would ask me about it. The same thing has happened with a guy in my church. I began a study some months ago...but stalled after chapter 30. The other day, this guy (who also was reading along with me) asked me if I had finished. I had to admit that I had stalled in the process, but was grateful for his challenge...(he also had stalled at around chapter 25). I re-started where I left off today.
This process has left me with two thoughts: (1) My New Year's resolutions for this year are to finish a few things before New Years and before I commit to start others. And (2) I need people to hold me accountable...even for some things that may seem trivial. And if I need to be reminded of some of these important things, maybe you do as well. Hope this helps...it does me good to confess occassionally.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
Life Begins
Tonight, I had the honor of visiting the newest person in our congregation. Little Sawyer was born this morning at around 10:30 a.m. So many times I (as a pastor) get to visit the sick and comfort the grieving. But for some reason, I was blessed today to see life the same day that the first earthly air was breathed. It sure was refreshing...and inspiring...and caused much reflection.
It is an incredible blessing from God to be a parent...4 times over. I met a grandma in the elevator who was visiting her 4th grandchild. The dad of the little guy I went to see just looked at me and grinned. Each of us had now had the privilege to parent 4 children of our own.
There is so much potential...and so much risk in living (whether you are the parent or the child). As I prayed over the parents and the child, it seemed that all I could focus on was an incredible need to see and sense God's hand in our lives, and my incredible desire for people (including myself) to know the awesome plan of God for our lives. Even though life in this atmosphere has just begun for one little guy, thank God we get the chance to put today behind us and begin again afresh tomorrow as we breathe in the new mercies of our heavenly Father.
It is an incredible blessing from God to be a parent...4 times over. I met a grandma in the elevator who was visiting her 4th grandchild. The dad of the little guy I went to see just looked at me and grinned. Each of us had now had the privilege to parent 4 children of our own.
There is so much potential...and so much risk in living (whether you are the parent or the child). As I prayed over the parents and the child, it seemed that all I could focus on was an incredible need to see and sense God's hand in our lives, and my incredible desire for people (including myself) to know the awesome plan of God for our lives. Even though life in this atmosphere has just begun for one little guy, thank God we get the chance to put today behind us and begin again afresh tomorrow as we breathe in the new mercies of our heavenly Father.
Sunday, November 18, 2007
A New Day
It has been almost a month since I have blogged...to my shame. For the past 3+ weeks it has been a mad dash to renovate a new facility for our church...but today was our first meeting time in the new building. It's a new day...for us...for me...a new chapter in the life of our church and my ministry. No, we did not change churches. Nor is it about the building. But it is about turning a page on the journey and with each new page comes new excitement and energy to keep pressing on for the Kingdom.
This morning I spoke about integrity from Genesis 39 and the life of Joseph. As I studied, I realized that our integrity is not lost when we are falsely accused (as was Joseph). However, the effect of public perception is normally the same as if we had actually 'done the deed'. I learned that our integrity must be intentionally protected on a daily basis in order for us to be consistently used by God for His glory and purposes.
But there was one truth that really struck me between the eyes. Potiphar's wife was consistently pursuing Joseph. Yet her intent was not to ruin his reputation. Rather, it was for her own selfish desires. Most people are not enticing us to ruin our integrity...but to serve their own purpose. So what's the point? The heart of temptation and testing of our character is really a part of a battle that has been going on for thousands of years...between God and Satan.
The cause of our temptation is Satan's attempt to embarrass God...through His children. He cannot get to God directly...but he can discredit Him through our actions. So how does that impact you and me? We should resist temptation under the motivation that is greater than our personal reputation. God's reputation is at stake and our effectiveness in His plan. And Satan's tactics have not changed.
Most of us can resist testing in the very adversarial times when we are 'loaded for bear' and 'prayed up'. However, Joseph was tempted when things were going well and he was left in charge. We must actively pray and act to put a wall of protection around our hearts, minds, and bodies so that we don't mess up our own lives...but more importantly we will not tarnish the Father's name.
This morning I spoke about integrity from Genesis 39 and the life of Joseph. As I studied, I realized that our integrity is not lost when we are falsely accused (as was Joseph). However, the effect of public perception is normally the same as if we had actually 'done the deed'. I learned that our integrity must be intentionally protected on a daily basis in order for us to be consistently used by God for His glory and purposes.
But there was one truth that really struck me between the eyes. Potiphar's wife was consistently pursuing Joseph. Yet her intent was not to ruin his reputation. Rather, it was for her own selfish desires. Most people are not enticing us to ruin our integrity...but to serve their own purpose. So what's the point? The heart of temptation and testing of our character is really a part of a battle that has been going on for thousands of years...between God and Satan.
The cause of our temptation is Satan's attempt to embarrass God...through His children. He cannot get to God directly...but he can discredit Him through our actions. So how does that impact you and me? We should resist temptation under the motivation that is greater than our personal reputation. God's reputation is at stake and our effectiveness in His plan. And Satan's tactics have not changed.
Most of us can resist testing in the very adversarial times when we are 'loaded for bear' and 'prayed up'. However, Joseph was tempted when things were going well and he was left in charge. We must actively pray and act to put a wall of protection around our hearts, minds, and bodies so that we don't mess up our own lives...but more importantly we will not tarnish the Father's name.
Monday, October 22, 2007
Change Makers
I am always envious when reading my friend Dino Senesi's blog as he is hanging out with superstar church planters and influencers. For a couple of days, I am experiencing it for myself in Phoenix, AZ with coordinators for a student church planting experience called PowerPlant. Next summer, we will watch what has recently been upwards of 2000 students spend a week of their summer not being entertained, but engaged in this experience known as church planting. These people I am with are visionaries...not just for a particular church...but for movements in who areas and in individual student's lives.
In the process of think about this though, I am reminded that each day I wake up (at least when I am home) next to one of those people...my wife. And I pack lunches for 4 of these people...my kids. And each week, I have the honor to preach and invest in a congregation of these people...my church. I am a blessed man.
In the process of think about this though, I am reminded that each day I wake up (at least when I am home) next to one of those people...my wife. And I pack lunches for 4 of these people...my kids. And each week, I have the honor to preach and invest in a congregation of these people...my church. I am a blessed man.
Friday, October 12, 2007
Practical Words
It has been amazing in these past four weeks of physical therapy (following my knee surgery) how difficult it has been to maintain my disciplined routine of writing. However, I have been so blessed to make some new friends and learn an incredible amount by hanging out 3 days a week with people facing physical challenges such as surgery, injury, and chronic illness.
Today, as I went for my Friday visit to the gym (therapy punishment arena), I was greeted by darkness in the room. I was plenty dissapointed, but was somewhat relieved that another guy showed up as well...so I wasn't the dense guy who missed the announcement that they would be closed today. But on to the point...
We found ourselves in the parking lot talking about a topic that had come up on Monday. He shared about what had happened during the rest of the week in his life and, on at least 4 occassions, I was able to share a Biblical truth from the text of my sermon for Sunday. Now I know that I cannot use his life as an illustration on all 4 points Sunday morning. However, it sure is great to be reminded that the Word of God is so practical in our daily lives and that it can make a difference, not only in our eternity, but in the joy/satisfaction of our every day journey.
Today, as I went for my Friday visit to the gym (therapy punishment arena), I was greeted by darkness in the room. I was plenty dissapointed, but was somewhat relieved that another guy showed up as well...so I wasn't the dense guy who missed the announcement that they would be closed today. But on to the point...
We found ourselves in the parking lot talking about a topic that had come up on Monday. He shared about what had happened during the rest of the week in his life and, on at least 4 occassions, I was able to share a Biblical truth from the text of my sermon for Sunday. Now I know that I cannot use his life as an illustration on all 4 points Sunday morning. However, it sure is great to be reminded that the Word of God is so practical in our daily lives and that it can make a difference, not only in our eternity, but in the joy/satisfaction of our every day journey.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Humbling Experiences
God has a funny way of keeping us from getting too excited about ourselves...an incredible way of surprising us with people...and perfect ways to keep us humble and grateful. Why? So He gets all the glory.
While hanging out here in rural eastern North Carolina this week, I met a coffee shop owner who is quietly sharing the love of Christ. I thought I might get the opportunity to share with him, but in my attempt he turned the tables and became the minister of God's grace.
While having lunch today with some old friends who have overcome a few obstacles in their lives, I found myself trying so hard to encourage them...but they were used of God to move me.
And last night, when I thought everything was a loss because no one responded to the message (which everyone told me was pretty good)...in my self-pity I looked to see a young lady waiting for the well-wishers to leave. She asked if I would pray with her. She, too, has lived through some very difficult circumstances. And as I was about to pray, she said that her circumstances were not why she had come...but rather to surrender her life to be a missionary.
God help me to remember that YOU are the only ONE who can change a heart.
While hanging out here in rural eastern North Carolina this week, I met a coffee shop owner who is quietly sharing the love of Christ. I thought I might get the opportunity to share with him, but in my attempt he turned the tables and became the minister of God's grace.
While having lunch today with some old friends who have overcome a few obstacles in their lives, I found myself trying so hard to encourage them...but they were used of God to move me.
And last night, when I thought everything was a loss because no one responded to the message (which everyone told me was pretty good)...in my self-pity I looked to see a young lady waiting for the well-wishers to leave. She asked if I would pray with her. She, too, has lived through some very difficult circumstances. And as I was about to pray, she said that her circumstances were not why she had come...but rather to surrender her life to be a missionary.
God help me to remember that YOU are the only ONE who can change a heart.
Monday, September 17, 2007
Old Friends
I remember, some years back, when Bill Gaither put out one of the first 'gospel' videos called, "Old Friends". Well, that's kind of how I felt last night singing and preaching at an old friend's church in a rural community in Eastern North Carolina. The congregation was splattered with people from the little country church and a slew of old friends from a place where I served while in seminary.
It did not take long for the 'request line' to form for all of the old favorites for which I was known to them. However, it did not take long for me to realize that these people held so many special memories in my life and their role in the formation of God's character in us. I had help bury some of their relative, I had ministered with others, and I had even led people to Christ paired up with a few. What investment they made in my life and family.
I am grateful for Pastor Ron believing in me enough to bring me here to preach and minister this week. He is the epitomy of a servant of God and a great friend. But also, after leaving here 7+ years ago, it sure has been awesome to touch some 'old friends' with some mutual love and appreciation for God's grace and sovereign providence in allowing us to become friends at all. I should never underestimate the importance of an encounter or place of ministry...as someday they may be 'old friends' too.
It did not take long for the 'request line' to form for all of the old favorites for which I was known to them. However, it did not take long for me to realize that these people held so many special memories in my life and their role in the formation of God's character in us. I had help bury some of their relative, I had ministered with others, and I had even led people to Christ paired up with a few. What investment they made in my life and family.
I am grateful for Pastor Ron believing in me enough to bring me here to preach and minister this week. He is the epitomy of a servant of God and a great friend. But also, after leaving here 7+ years ago, it sure has been awesome to touch some 'old friends' with some mutual love and appreciation for God's grace and sovereign providence in allowing us to become friends at all. I should never underestimate the importance of an encounter or place of ministry...as someday they may be 'old friends' too.
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Being Served
It may be one of the most difficult things for a type 'A' personality to go through...recovery from surgery. But it does reveal some incredible things about life. Being served is tough because you so desire to serve others. Seeing your kids get out of bed in the morning and they want to know what they can do to help you. Having your wife get out of bed to help you to the bathroom and then hook-up your cooling pump...and then rubbing your feet. Seeing too guys from church show up at the hospital at 6:30 a.m. to pray with you...and harrass you instead of getting a few extra winks of sleep. Having one of your golfing buddies take your kids to a football game and then bring you a set of crutches. And then hearing the people call to check on you...even if you are on 'crazy' pills and cannot speak coherantly. (I just took more so this should be short.) And then having a doctor who calls.
When you are on the receiving end, (this is my first surgery - knee injury), it certainly does encourage you to see the value of serving others even more. Thanks guys for helping through this little valley and showing the love of Christ so practically.
Better quit now. The 'pills' are kicking in.
When you are on the receiving end, (this is my first surgery - knee injury), it certainly does encourage you to see the value of serving others even more. Thanks guys for helping through this little valley and showing the love of Christ so practically.
Better quit now. The 'pills' are kicking in.
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Definitions
As school for my kids is nearing the end of week 3, the quizzes and tests have begun to arrive with some consistency. It seems that, with some regularity (including last night) that I am being asked, "What does the word _______ mean?" And like the good spelling bee winners, I often ask, "Can you give me a sentence with the word in it?" It seems that so much of our verbage is dependent on context these days.
In these past few days, I have been confronted head on with the reality that, even in the church, we can use a lot of similar terms and yet mean something totally different. As I was finishing up writing my sermon for this Sunday (a missions day at another local church), I realized that the words we use in our church planting context may be misunderstood. I also realized while talking again this week to a young dad today who is involved an incredible faith ministry...that we often can get comfortable in our own 'word culture'.
Then...as if to put an exclamation point on the thought...I was listening to a song and I realized something so incredible. God, who is so infinitely indescribable, sent His Son so that we could have picture of His love and grace in order that we might understand and wrote the Bible written so that we could know Him...at least as much as our finite minds could. If that be true, don't others deserve for me to put into their context my definitions.
They may not ask the exact question, but it may sound something like this: "Can you use that word in a sentence that I can understand?"
In these past few days, I have been confronted head on with the reality that, even in the church, we can use a lot of similar terms and yet mean something totally different. As I was finishing up writing my sermon for this Sunday (a missions day at another local church), I realized that the words we use in our church planting context may be misunderstood. I also realized while talking again this week to a young dad today who is involved an incredible faith ministry...that we often can get comfortable in our own 'word culture'.
Then...as if to put an exclamation point on the thought...I was listening to a song and I realized something so incredible. God, who is so infinitely indescribable, sent His Son so that we could have picture of His love and grace in order that we might understand and wrote the Bible written so that we could know Him...at least as much as our finite minds could. If that be true, don't others deserve for me to put into their context my definitions.
They may not ask the exact question, but it may sound something like this: "Can you use that word in a sentence that I can understand?"
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Wasted Time
There is nothing like the feeling at the end of a day, a week, a month, a season...or even a carpool line...that you have just been wasting your time. I've got to admit that is how I felt a little while ago when I realized that it was 8:30 p.m. and I was not sure what I had accomplished since 6:00 a.m. when I woke up. It did not just hit me at 8:30 p.m., but about 10 times during the day. Just what have I been doing?
I woke up this morning and prayed for a half hour...then kissed my lovely wife good morning (a few times). I hugged all of our children, then took 3 of them to school. I stopped for coffee and made someone smile. I stopped to turn in a mission trip form and fellowshipped a few moments with some cool people. Got the mail and said good morning to a few 'grouchy' looking people. Went to the bank and was met by a 2 smiling tellers. Read some news on my e-mail, then prayed some more for people in our congregation, missionaries, a seminary president...etc.
A little later, I paid some bills and then read the Bible (something I did not understand very well). So I picked up a book on the passage from the desk that the author had given me and began to understand what I had read. I got to help the vending machine guy fix the machine in our building and prayed with a woman (whom I did not know) who had just lost her husband last week. Then I spent 2 hours with a neat young couple who are following God's plan for their lives.
Rushing to my next thing, I stopped (at 1:45 p.m.) for a quick combo at Jack in the Box that wasn't so quick. I let a guy go in front of me...who proceeded to ask for 2 'Jack' toys to give to his parents who were visiting from out of the country. I learned patience. Then I sat in a carpool line...talked with some old friends...and then sat in another car pool line...talking to my kids. I got to come home and start dinner, then go exchange my son's tennis shoes, buy 3 kids some ice cream (I resisted), and buy my (almost) 7 year old her first piano book (for me to teach her).
Then it was a rush to gymnastics class where we met mom who had been working...then off to the skating rink so Kara could go to her school's first outing. Quickly, we zipped to the High School to pick up the oldest...on the way to which I got to have a great conversation with Jared. Few words came out of the 15 year old after 10 1/2 hours at school, then home to finish dinner and sit down with 5 out of 6 around the table. Cleaning up...then a few minutes reading e-mails and then explaining my blog to a 13 year old who thought my picture was distorted.
Well, it's 9:30 p.m. and I hope to have a few minutes with 'mama' if we can get the last of math, algebra, Spanish, history, and English out of the way. I guess it was a 'wasted' day. I only spent time with God, my wife, my kids, a widow, a missionary, and some guy buying dumb toys for his international parents. I hope I can waste some more time tomorrow.
I woke up this morning and prayed for a half hour...then kissed my lovely wife good morning (a few times). I hugged all of our children, then took 3 of them to school. I stopped for coffee and made someone smile. I stopped to turn in a mission trip form and fellowshipped a few moments with some cool people. Got the mail and said good morning to a few 'grouchy' looking people. Went to the bank and was met by a 2 smiling tellers. Read some news on my e-mail, then prayed some more for people in our congregation, missionaries, a seminary president...etc.
A little later, I paid some bills and then read the Bible (something I did not understand very well). So I picked up a book on the passage from the desk that the author had given me and began to understand what I had read. I got to help the vending machine guy fix the machine in our building and prayed with a woman (whom I did not know) who had just lost her husband last week. Then I spent 2 hours with a neat young couple who are following God's plan for their lives.
Rushing to my next thing, I stopped (at 1:45 p.m.) for a quick combo at Jack in the Box that wasn't so quick. I let a guy go in front of me...who proceeded to ask for 2 'Jack' toys to give to his parents who were visiting from out of the country. I learned patience. Then I sat in a carpool line...talked with some old friends...and then sat in another car pool line...talking to my kids. I got to come home and start dinner, then go exchange my son's tennis shoes, buy 3 kids some ice cream (I resisted), and buy my (almost) 7 year old her first piano book (for me to teach her).
Then it was a rush to gymnastics class where we met mom who had been working...then off to the skating rink so Kara could go to her school's first outing. Quickly, we zipped to the High School to pick up the oldest...on the way to which I got to have a great conversation with Jared. Few words came out of the 15 year old after 10 1/2 hours at school, then home to finish dinner and sit down with 5 out of 6 around the table. Cleaning up...then a few minutes reading e-mails and then explaining my blog to a 13 year old who thought my picture was distorted.
Well, it's 9:30 p.m. and I hope to have a few minutes with 'mama' if we can get the last of math, algebra, Spanish, history, and English out of the way. I guess it was a 'wasted' day. I only spent time with God, my wife, my kids, a widow, a missionary, and some guy buying dumb toys for his international parents. I hope I can waste some more time tomorrow.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Just Another Hurdle on the Journey of Life? Really?
I was troubled this morning to read that another ministry marriage is breaking up. Interestingly, the couple are both televangelists / pastors in a Florida megachurch (22,000 members). It seems that over the past few months, they have been drifting apart...partly due to his beginning a new ministry effort on the west coast and her new ministry in New York. It is incredibly sad. Their announced divorce leaves me with more than the inevitable questions about causes...but drifts to the rest of the story. He is planning to remain as the leader of the megachurch and she is planning to continue her television preaching. Of course, a little statement at the end of the story reminds us that both were previously married and divorced.
It could bother me that they were previously divorced and in ministry. It could bother me that a woman is the pastor. It could bother me that ministry seems to have driven a wedge in their relationship that an all-powerful God is seemingly unable to fix. It could bother me that a church or denomination does not rise up and say 'enough'. It could bother me that a television network would continue to air their sermons. (And all of this does bother me.) But what bothers me the most is that this just seems to be another hurdle in their life journey and their personal minsitries will just continue as usual...instead of a being a traumatic earthquake in the lives of two people who made a loving, permanent covenant with God and each other.
As Christians, we've all been disappointed by 'televangelists' and pastors before. But what does it say to a lost world about what we believe about God and his thoughts about marriage? We need a better picture. I pray Lesa and I can / will paint a much better one for them that will demonstrate the grace, love and power of our incredible God.
It could bother me that they were previously divorced and in ministry. It could bother me that a woman is the pastor. It could bother me that ministry seems to have driven a wedge in their relationship that an all-powerful God is seemingly unable to fix. It could bother me that a church or denomination does not rise up and say 'enough'. It could bother me that a television network would continue to air their sermons. (And all of this does bother me.) But what bothers me the most is that this just seems to be another hurdle in their life journey and their personal minsitries will just continue as usual...instead of a being a traumatic earthquake in the lives of two people who made a loving, permanent covenant with God and each other.
As Christians, we've all been disappointed by 'televangelists' and pastors before. But what does it say to a lost world about what we believe about God and his thoughts about marriage? We need a better picture. I pray Lesa and I can / will paint a much better one for them that will demonstrate the grace, love and power of our incredible God.
Fantasy Football - Part 2
After writing about the influence of a dad and a fantasy football league yesterday, I came home to find my son (Jared) figuring out how to start a league of his own. (It was free...and pretty easy to set-up.) I was initially resistant...but then it hit me. Instead of being resistant, why don't I play. Right now, he's on the phone contacting some friends/relatives with whom we normally are not able to be engaged on a regular basis, about playing with us. Something we could do together...even across the miles. What a great tool the internet could be...playing a weekly game with some folks you love. Thanks again Mr. K for your timely influence as I could have missed the incredible opportunity with my kids...and more. Now, I can't wait for the draft this weekend...GO HORNETS! (My team)
Monday, August 27, 2007
Fantasy Football Lessons
I am a firm believer that God ordained the family...and that parents are responsible for raising their own children. However, though I would not agree with Chelsea's mom about it taking all of society to raise our kids, I was reminded yesterday about the faithfulness of God to place great men in the lives of my kids to influence them for the good of the Kingdom.
This Saturday, our boys will attend their 4th Fantasy Football draft...just in time for the NFL season to kick-off. Yesterday, in the middle of an afternoon when most dads would be on the couch, one dad/son was touring the homes of previous league participants to interview them for a video his son was making. We watched the end of the Little League World Series together with some incredible interaction. I was reminded of God's soveriegn grace in helping us to prepare our kids for adulthood...even though I realize it is our responsibility. Thanks Mr. K.
This Saturday, our boys will attend their 4th Fantasy Football draft...just in time for the NFL season to kick-off. Yesterday, in the middle of an afternoon when most dads would be on the couch, one dad/son was touring the homes of previous league participants to interview them for a video his son was making. We watched the end of the Little League World Series together with some incredible interaction. I was reminded of God's soveriegn grace in helping us to prepare our kids for adulthood...even though I realize it is our responsibility. Thanks Mr. K.
Friday, August 24, 2007
Carpool Lines, Guidance Counselors, and Politicians
It has been an interesting week as our kids began public school for the first time in South Carolina. We are blessed to live in one of the best districts in the state...so remind Lesa and I of that while we're sitting for 2 hours in carpool lines each day. There must be a better way to pass the time...reading almost got me in a bumper bender already. But we survived and look forward to seeing / hearing our incredible son, Nathan, play in the band at his first home football game tonight. He has displayed so much maturity these last few weeks.
Working through class schedules, open houses, registrations, etc. did not used to be so hard...at least not until college. However, I am grateful for one especially nice guidance counselor who took time for us this morning...even when the front desk was ready to turn us away. Thanks Mr. K for helping a 15 year old adjust. Maybe that helped me decide to spend a little extra time today with a mom and daughter who wanted to tour the 'Ballet' (Church) today to help a little girl adjust. They also got invited to church.
Finally, can I say that I was deeply impressed by two meetings I attended in the past 24 hours. Last night, a town hall meeting with my State Senator, Kevin Bryant. Great guy...great values...great discernment...great patience. I would like to have smacked the old guy who ranted for 20 minutes to the audience about the water problem in his yard on a county road. (...like KB could do anything about it.) I guess it made him feel better and showed the patience of a public servant.
This morning I was blessed to sit with Dr. Jim Austin, our new SCBC Executive Director. He too was all of those good things. I was encouraged by some of the other servants of God in the room who really have a heart for people, the church, and God's Kingdom. However, before things got too positive, we listened to a few tell us how to make our 'church' people feel more love and care, with no mention of leading them out of their comfort zone to reach their JJSE.
If I hear the term 'mission minded' one more time... (I might be tempted to go back and smack the old ranting guy at the town hall meeting.) It was a clear reminder of why Steve Sojourn quotes stats (today in Christian Report) that now show 98% of U.S. churches are plateaued or declining. If all we had to do was help 'church' people feel loved and meet their needs, pastoring would be much simpler. But the last I read in the NT, shepherds were not just to keep their sheep fed, loved and happy in the fold. I was glad to see and hear both a State Senator and a Baptist leader who were not stereotypical politicians. Lead on!
Working through class schedules, open houses, registrations, etc. did not used to be so hard...at least not until college. However, I am grateful for one especially nice guidance counselor who took time for us this morning...even when the front desk was ready to turn us away. Thanks Mr. K for helping a 15 year old adjust. Maybe that helped me decide to spend a little extra time today with a mom and daughter who wanted to tour the 'Ballet' (Church) today to help a little girl adjust. They also got invited to church.
Finally, can I say that I was deeply impressed by two meetings I attended in the past 24 hours. Last night, a town hall meeting with my State Senator, Kevin Bryant. Great guy...great values...great discernment...great patience. I would like to have smacked the old guy who ranted for 20 minutes to the audience about the water problem in his yard on a county road. (...like KB could do anything about it.) I guess it made him feel better and showed the patience of a public servant.
This morning I was blessed to sit with Dr. Jim Austin, our new SCBC Executive Director. He too was all of those good things. I was encouraged by some of the other servants of God in the room who really have a heart for people, the church, and God's Kingdom. However, before things got too positive, we listened to a few tell us how to make our 'church' people feel more love and care, with no mention of leading them out of their comfort zone to reach their JJSE.
If I hear the term 'mission minded' one more time... (I might be tempted to go back and smack the old ranting guy at the town hall meeting.) It was a clear reminder of why Steve Sojourn quotes stats (today in Christian Report) that now show 98% of U.S. churches are plateaued or declining. If all we had to do was help 'church' people feel loved and meet their needs, pastoring would be much simpler. But the last I read in the NT, shepherds were not just to keep their sheep fed, loved and happy in the fold. I was glad to see and hear both a State Senator and a Baptist leader who were not stereotypical politicians. Lead on!
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Hot and Cold
Lesa and I are both natives of the Buckeye State (Ohio) and know something about weather 'flexibility'. Yesterday, she saw that the temperature in northeast Ohio (her home) was 68 degrees, while my father (southern Ohio) said it was 91 in my home town. I am sure that there were people in each location who would have preferred the temperature of the other...based on their personal perspective or situation.
This morning, I read about two adjacent cities who each had a special water supply, one a 'hot' spring and the other a cold, fresh mountain spring. Surely there were some who would have preferred the temperature of the other's water...based on their personal perspective or situation. To meet the need of an individual would take intentional effort.
As I read, God reminded me that every person is not going to be touched by the same approach...based on their perspective or personal situation. And the same is true in a house (like mine) with four incredible kids and a wonderful 'snow belt' beauty. I must discern their individual perspectives, situations and needs rather than being a husband and father who does everything in the temperature with which I am most comfortable.
This morning, I read about two adjacent cities who each had a special water supply, one a 'hot' spring and the other a cold, fresh mountain spring. Surely there were some who would have preferred the temperature of the other's water...based on their personal perspective or situation. To meet the need of an individual would take intentional effort.
As I read, God reminded me that every person is not going to be touched by the same approach...based on their perspective or personal situation. And the same is true in a house (like mine) with four incredible kids and a wonderful 'snow belt' beauty. I must discern their individual perspectives, situations and needs rather than being a husband and father who does everything in the temperature with which I am most comfortable.
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
As If Cultural Pressure Was Not Enough...
I read this morning of a church being sued in New England for not allowing a same-sex marriage ceremony to take place in their facility. After a short cheer in my heart, I went on to read of what troubles me much more. Seeing conflict within the church, especially in days when around the world His Kingdom is expanding so rapidly, really bothers me. Experience has taught me in very practical ways what the Bible teaches...that although Satan cannot destroy the church, he surely can distract her.
The headlines about churches and denominations split over doctrinal and moral issues is not new. As I read this morning again, the early church dealt with the same stuff. It's not new in our setting. But even as I was reading this morning about the early church and, as well, of those today who are taking a stand for what is right, I was struck in my devotions about the promise of God to protect His church and her purity.
Although He recognizes outside persecution and promises to bring eventual judgement, our Lord goes quickly inside the church to uncover heresy and immorality. His exhortation was this: "Repent or else I am coming to you quickly, and I will make war against them with the sword of My mouth." (Rev. 2:16) I pray today that our church and our denomination will stay to the Word of God in doctrine and morality...but not just the SBC. May Satan have no place in God's church who is His planned agent to take the good new to the entire world.
The headlines about churches and denominations split over doctrinal and moral issues is not new. As I read this morning again, the early church dealt with the same stuff. It's not new in our setting. But even as I was reading this morning about the early church and, as well, of those today who are taking a stand for what is right, I was struck in my devotions about the promise of God to protect His church and her purity.
Although He recognizes outside persecution and promises to bring eventual judgement, our Lord goes quickly inside the church to uncover heresy and immorality. His exhortation was this: "Repent or else I am coming to you quickly, and I will make war against them with the sword of My mouth." (Rev. 2:16) I pray today that our church and our denomination will stay to the Word of God in doctrine and morality...but not just the SBC. May Satan have no place in God's church who is His planned agent to take the good new to the entire world.
Monday, August 13, 2007
Toxic Peanut Butter
This past Saturday, I had the incredible opportunity to join six members of our congregation in serving at a camp for children whose parents have Multiple Sclerosis. Man, was I impressed. (Not just with the camp, though it was pretty incredible.) What incredibly mature, and mostly postive, kids ages 9-12.
One of the goals of the camp is to help the children experience what people with MS go through when their symptoms 'flair up'. So as all 18 kids were attempting to get across the 'pool of toxic peanut butter' without stepping off the small wooden discs, they also had to help about 1/3 of their team members who were wearing ankle weights, or 'blurry vision' glasses, or oven mits on their hands. It would be hard enough to make it over the 30 ft. pit without barriers, but give me a break. That toxic peanut butter is pretty nasty stuff.
What amazed me most is that the kids were so supportive of the ones with the barriers...as if they somewhat understood them already. Maybe it was because they dealt with parents who had hinderences on a daily basis. Either way, it challenged me to plow through my little knee injury from a Friday night tennis match with my son...and not complain about it too much.
Most of all, it challenged me to think about those who are going through life...all around me...with the weight of life burdens around their legs, and vision that is blurred by culture and sin, and hearts that have become so insulated to the pressures of life that they cannot feel the incredible love of God that is trying to touch them. Maybe I can help a few across the 'toxic peanut butter' this week.?.?.?
One of the goals of the camp is to help the children experience what people with MS go through when their symptoms 'flair up'. So as all 18 kids were attempting to get across the 'pool of toxic peanut butter' without stepping off the small wooden discs, they also had to help about 1/3 of their team members who were wearing ankle weights, or 'blurry vision' glasses, or oven mits on their hands. It would be hard enough to make it over the 30 ft. pit without barriers, but give me a break. That toxic peanut butter is pretty nasty stuff.
What amazed me most is that the kids were so supportive of the ones with the barriers...as if they somewhat understood them already. Maybe it was because they dealt with parents who had hinderences on a daily basis. Either way, it challenged me to plow through my little knee injury from a Friday night tennis match with my son...and not complain about it too much.
Most of all, it challenged me to think about those who are going through life...all around me...with the weight of life burdens around their legs, and vision that is blurred by culture and sin, and hearts that have become so insulated to the pressures of life that they cannot feel the incredible love of God that is trying to touch them. Maybe I can help a few across the 'toxic peanut butter' this week.?.?.?
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
I Want More Pictures
Last night, while watching NCSI (obviously my wife was not home), I was reminded again of an important life lesson. One detective's team was rescheduled from weekend duty and the replacement team members were all killed by a bomb. As they were investigating the crime scene, the reality hit as another this detective was reminded that he should never pass up the opportunity to say, "I love you."
Earlier this week, as I was glancing at some pictures of the mission trip I took last year to Jinja, Uganda, (for 3 weeks) I was reminded of the incredible experience in several ways. But as I sat on the sofa next to my wonderful wife, I remembered how much I missed her during that time. I shared that with her and her smile was worth a million.
I would like to say that I do that all the time...or even enough of the time...but I don't. "God, would you please send more pictures in my life to remind me to tell those that I love how much I care for them...while I have the time? I need...want...more pictures."
Earlier this week, as I was glancing at some pictures of the mission trip I took last year to Jinja, Uganda, (for 3 weeks) I was reminded of the incredible experience in several ways. But as I sat on the sofa next to my wonderful wife, I remembered how much I missed her during that time. I shared that with her and her smile was worth a million.
I would like to say that I do that all the time...or even enough of the time...but I don't. "God, would you please send more pictures in my life to remind me to tell those that I love how much I care for them...while I have the time? I need...want...more pictures."
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Building Community
This morning I read an article by Mark Tabb (www.onmission.com) entitled, "Just Add People". He tells the story about 'Dan' who attended a Baptist church, but had been disconnected for some time from religious affiliation and had never connected in a relationship with Christ. Although he sensed no great personal desire to re-connect in church, he and his wife had some sense of need for a religious experience for their children.
I guess the thought that kept hitting me was the constant need to work at building community in our church(es). Sometimes, like building a house, the process moves quickly while at other times it moves slowly. Sometimes there is fast building and other times there are inspections. We must continue to make progress, but allow for time when people are making inspection. As well, some of the most favorable inspections take place while the inspector sees positive progress in other areas of the project...many times with the inspector's involvement.
Tabb states what most of us know, but can forget in the fray of the week-to-week of 'church': "...often they are converted to our community before they are converted to Christ." In our context, 'Dan' is more often the norm than the exception. Community is not something we can 'CREATE' and expect to be effective for the long term. It must be continuously cultivated and 'BUILT' as we serve the Kingdom.
I guess the thought that kept hitting me was the constant need to work at building community in our church(es). Sometimes, like building a house, the process moves quickly while at other times it moves slowly. Sometimes there is fast building and other times there are inspections. We must continue to make progress, but allow for time when people are making inspection. As well, some of the most favorable inspections take place while the inspector sees positive progress in other areas of the project...many times with the inspector's involvement.
Tabb states what most of us know, but can forget in the fray of the week-to-week of 'church': "...often they are converted to our community before they are converted to Christ." In our context, 'Dan' is more often the norm than the exception. Community is not something we can 'CREATE' and expect to be effective for the long term. It must be continuously cultivated and 'BUILT' as we serve the Kingdom.
Monday, August 6, 2007
I Want to Learn It...NOW
I had an incredible opportunity to see one of my kids take a major leap in maturity last week. It is an awesome thing to see your kids begin to make difficult, yet positive decisions. What was really difficult for me what that I was not totally sure of the correct answer or response. I hope that it was as positive for building his faith as it has been for mine. I hope all of my 'teen' issues can go like this...because not knowing the right answers will start making my gray disappear.
Part of my greatest frustration is desiring to learn the answers, explanations, reasons...NOW! God has been teaching me that many times the only way to really learn something that will impact my life or ministry is to experience the learning in steps or processes over time. This goes against every fiber of my being. It also seems true...what I already knew...that the learning process often occurs during the difficult times in life.
In my personal devotional journey, I have begun an adventure into a book of the Bible where I have yet to tread for an extended period. Lest any (including me) think that I become an instant scholar, I will refrain from telling what the location is...until the process has time to prove my ability to stick with it. I have started this one many times before. I'll let you know how it is going.
Part of my greatest frustration is desiring to learn the answers, explanations, reasons...NOW! God has been teaching me that many times the only way to really learn something that will impact my life or ministry is to experience the learning in steps or processes over time. This goes against every fiber of my being. It also seems true...what I already knew...that the learning process often occurs during the difficult times in life.
In my personal devotional journey, I have begun an adventure into a book of the Bible where I have yet to tread for an extended period. Lest any (including me) think that I become an instant scholar, I will refrain from telling what the location is...until the process has time to prove my ability to stick with it. I have started this one many times before. I'll let you know how it is going.
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Gotta Lose Weight
There is nothing like the feeling you get when you say, "I really need to lose 10 pounds." Only to have your wife verbally agree. As I was recovering from the shock of this scene, she reminded me of the facts.
A year ago, I thought there was something seriously wrong as I was experiencing blurred vision, chest pains, and severe headaches. One primary care physician, a cardiologist, an opthamologist, a neurologist, an MRI, and a bunch of blood tests later...the diagnosis was STRESS.
After being cleared to travel, I then went on a 3 week mission trip to Uganda. Life is a little slower paced and simpler there...and it has an incredible impact on your perspective. The every-other-night power outages also give you more time to pray and to hear from God. As I reflect, it may be time for another trip...somewhere. After further review...and my next mission trip not until September 22nd...there is only one thing left to say:
"But Thou, O Lord, are a shield about me, my glory and the lifter of my head!" (Psalm 3:3)
A year ago, I thought there was something seriously wrong as I was experiencing blurred vision, chest pains, and severe headaches. One primary care physician, a cardiologist, an opthamologist, a neurologist, an MRI, and a bunch of blood tests later...the diagnosis was STRESS.
After being cleared to travel, I then went on a 3 week mission trip to Uganda. Life is a little slower paced and simpler there...and it has an incredible impact on your perspective. The every-other-night power outages also give you more time to pray and to hear from God. As I reflect, it may be time for another trip...somewhere. After further review...and my next mission trip not until September 22nd...there is only one thing left to say:
"But Thou, O Lord, are a shield about me, my glory and the lifter of my head!" (Psalm 3:3)
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
It's Not That Important...or Is It?
I saw the election headline this morning...a war of words between Hilary and O'B...mainly about the War. Bill is even getting in his 2 cents...and is still revered as a great President. One South Carolinian even said it this morning on the news...with the stipulation that he might not have been the greatest moral leader.
When I got to the office, I read the CrossWalk.com headlines that are e-mailed to me each day. O'B states that he thinks we are putting too much emphasis on faith and religion in the '08 race. As I was thinking about the impact of his statement, it was very frightening. Without faith in God and the foundation of the Bible, would we (America) turn our back on Israel? Would we care about injustice in the world (or here)? Would we be even less concerned with the value of life? Would we nationally accept homosexuality as normal? I read this morning that it is at the top of the NEA agenda to teach it as the norm in every school. (It's happening right now in a school near my rural, small hometown.) Would the next leader who has an affair commit murder to cover it up? (i.e. David)
I may not be the smartest brick in the wall, but it sure does seem important to me. I sure wish I could hear someone stand up (like another great leader did 3000 years ago) and say, "I have installed my King." (Psalm 2:6) Or like another great leader, someone would say, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." (Joshua 24:15) But as I dream, maybe unrealistically, for this person to arise; God seems to speak to me, "You be that man, wherever you are, who will care about what I care about." Faith does matter. It does not just inform us, but it drives us. But it is not going to matter in Washington...or Columbia...or in Greenville until it becomes of paramount importance in my life, my home, my church...
It's not that important...or is it?
When I got to the office, I read the CrossWalk.com headlines that are e-mailed to me each day. O'B states that he thinks we are putting too much emphasis on faith and religion in the '08 race. As I was thinking about the impact of his statement, it was very frightening. Without faith in God and the foundation of the Bible, would we (America) turn our back on Israel? Would we care about injustice in the world (or here)? Would we be even less concerned with the value of life? Would we nationally accept homosexuality as normal? I read this morning that it is at the top of the NEA agenda to teach it as the norm in every school. (It's happening right now in a school near my rural, small hometown.) Would the next leader who has an affair commit murder to cover it up? (i.e. David)
I may not be the smartest brick in the wall, but it sure does seem important to me. I sure wish I could hear someone stand up (like another great leader did 3000 years ago) and say, "I have installed my King." (Psalm 2:6) Or like another great leader, someone would say, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." (Joshua 24:15) But as I dream, maybe unrealistically, for this person to arise; God seems to speak to me, "You be that man, wherever you are, who will care about what I care about." Faith does matter. It does not just inform us, but it drives us. But it is not going to matter in Washington...or Columbia...or in Greenville until it becomes of paramount importance in my life, my home, my church...
It's not that important...or is it?
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Communicating with Questions
I had a neat experience this morning. I had to go to a difficult meeting. I struggled to go to sleep last night and awoke at 5:00 a.m. and could not sleep. So I began to pray...and analyze what I should do. I don't know about you, but I tend to spend more time trying to figure it out than listening for God's answers. Finally, around 6:00 a.m. I gave up trying to figure it out and fell asleep...only to hear the alarm 45 minutes later.
As I got to my meeting early this morning, God seemed to speak to me and tell me to be slow to state anything, but to rather to ask questions. The truth was that questions were really all I had to offer. So I had to resist the GUY thing of having answers. Amazingly, the person with whom I was meeting responded incredibly and communicated the fact that he tried every way he could think of to figure out a solution and was only left with questions. By communicating our questions, however, we were able to arrive at a possible solution to the difficult situation.
A little bit later, while reading God's Word, I saw the story of a group of people who were perplexed in a serious situation. Their questions were of the 'life determining' nature. Then enter Jesus...and rather than proclaiming how stupid they were (which He had the right and position to do), He asked questions. His questions helped the people figure out the answers themselves. What a novel idea...or not?
As I got to my meeting early this morning, God seemed to speak to me and tell me to be slow to state anything, but to rather to ask questions. The truth was that questions were really all I had to offer. So I had to resist the GUY thing of having answers. Amazingly, the person with whom I was meeting responded incredibly and communicated the fact that he tried every way he could think of to figure out a solution and was only left with questions. By communicating our questions, however, we were able to arrive at a possible solution to the difficult situation.
A little bit later, while reading God's Word, I saw the story of a group of people who were perplexed in a serious situation. Their questions were of the 'life determining' nature. Then enter Jesus...and rather than proclaiming how stupid they were (which He had the right and position to do), He asked questions. His questions helped the people figure out the answers themselves. What a novel idea...or not?
Monday, July 30, 2007
Souveniers
Have you been watching Barry Bond's chase for the Major League Baseball homerun record, currently held by Hank Aaron? Especially since moving to Atlanta Braves territory, I have seen the Aaron replay so many times. However, the media (rightly or wrongly) is struggling to focus on Bond's potential accomplishment...but instead is focusing on the stories surrounding it. One that has caught my attention is the crew of kayak paddlers in the McCovey cove outside the park awaiting the souvenier of a lifetime.
If the ball were to go into the water, then who would get to it first? Would they value it so highly that they would keep it, or would they sell it for a profit? Mark McGwire's single season record ball is worth a ton of money...even though he is also facing personal scrutiny. It makes me wonder if I will finish well enough for anything that I have touched to be valued by anyone.
But today, I was reading about an item that was not auctioned off on Ebay, but was instead gambled for at the foot of a cross. It was owned and worn by a pretty popular guy in history who's life was also ripped with scandel. I am sure that someone would love to have it today. I wonder what it would be worth? But I am left with a penetrating question: Would we spend more time focused on the garment or the accomplishment of the One who wore it?
If the ball were to go into the water, then who would get to it first? Would they value it so highly that they would keep it, or would they sell it for a profit? Mark McGwire's single season record ball is worth a ton of money...even though he is also facing personal scrutiny. It makes me wonder if I will finish well enough for anything that I have touched to be valued by anyone.
But today, I was reading about an item that was not auctioned off on Ebay, but was instead gambled for at the foot of a cross. It was owned and worn by a pretty popular guy in history who's life was also ripped with scandel. I am sure that someone would love to have it today. I wonder what it would be worth? But I am left with a penetrating question: Would we spend more time focused on the garment or the accomplishment of the One who wore it?
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Cultural Paradox
In my studies today, I came across a statement by Warren Wiersbe that says something like, "Life is meant to be enjoyed and used to bring glory to God." It struck me that our culture would say that these two would be mutually exclusive. However, the reality of the thought hit me. The thought that we cannot enjoy life while pleasing God is a lie straight from the pits of hell that we often buy...just as it was first sold in the Garden of Eden. It has been sold to some of the greatest minds and wealthiest people in history...but it is purchased by the lowliest people as well. The truth is that the greatest enjoyment we can have in life is when we are living out our God desired purpose.
Friday, July 27, 2007
Increase Our Faith
Recently, in my personal study, I was reading in Luke 17 as the disciples of Jesus were asking Him to "Increase our faith." I have been asking the same of the Master. Jesus responds with a message about the exercise of our faith in what may seem small acts of service that should be the natural outflow of our love for Him. He then goes on His way...healing ten (10) men.
Sometimes I find myself looking for some major sign that God is at work so that my faith will grow. Jesus responded to the disciples in verse 20-21, "The Kingdom of God is not coming with signs to be observed; nor will they say, 'Look, here it is!' or 'There is it!' For behold the Kingdom of God is in your midst."
After spending the last four (4) days working with 24 teenagers in various mission projects here in the Greenville, SC area parks; I am very encouraged. These 'kids' opened up their lives with us to a community they did not even know through simple acts of service. I must say that the future of the church is bright if these are a picture of our future leaders. But most of all, I saw so plainly that God is at work all around us. He is changing lives...here and around the world. I found my faith has been increased just by stopping long enough to see it. By doing what should just come naturally...and noticing the the great healer of the soul is actively at work.
Sometimes I find myself looking for some major sign that God is at work so that my faith will grow. Jesus responded to the disciples in verse 20-21, "The Kingdom of God is not coming with signs to be observed; nor will they say, 'Look, here it is!' or 'There is it!' For behold the Kingdom of God is in your midst."
After spending the last four (4) days working with 24 teenagers in various mission projects here in the Greenville, SC area parks; I am very encouraged. These 'kids' opened up their lives with us to a community they did not even know through simple acts of service. I must say that the future of the church is bright if these are a picture of our future leaders. But most of all, I saw so plainly that God is at work all around us. He is changing lives...here and around the world. I found my faith has been increased just by stopping long enough to see it. By doing what should just come naturally...and noticing the the great healer of the soul is actively at work.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
